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NEST CURRICULUM

cOMPREHENSIVE VIOLENCE PREVENTION

Bullying
Teen Dating Violence
Self-Harm
Child Abuse
Digital Abuse
Sexual Violence
Peer-to-Peer Violence

You Belong Here (YBH) is a comprehensive violence prevention curriculum written for ages 5-18 that builds practical skills and buffers protective factors that foster safety, reduce harm, and create more connected communities.

Curriculum Overview

Transforming how schools approach safety and harm reduction

Research- and evidenced-based

100+ lessons aligned with the social-ecological model of violence prevention and grounded in Significance Quest Theory (SQT).

Addresses root causes of all forms of violence

Recognizing that violence stems from common roots, this curriculum asks how we can build better relationships and more connected communities. YBH proactively impacts bullying, teen dating violence, sexual violence, peer-to-peer violence and self-harm.

standards met

A comprehensive curricula that aligns with national health and violence prevention standards

Contact for Specific Standards Met

In alignment with CASEL framework

In alignment with the National Health Education Standards

In alignment with the CDC National Standards

curriculum focus

Evidence-Informed Prevention

Prevention Skills
Protective Factors
Safety & Relationship Skills

Emphasizes Healthy Relationships

Self-Regulation
Setting and Respecting Boundaries
Communication
Non-Violent Problem solving
Pro-Social Connections
Expectations for healthy, non-violent relationships
Mental health
Managing Conflicts with Respect
Making Sincere Apologies
healthy breakups
Handling Rejection Constructively

Promotes Safety in Risky Contexts

Boundary Setting
Assertive Communication
Critical Thinking
Media LIteracy
Upstander Behavior
Support During Difficult Life Events
Community Connectedness
Safe & Trusted Adults
Stable Identity
Self-Care & Coping Strategies
Help-Seeking
Grooming tactics awareness
Abuse Awareness
Exploitation Awareness
Radicalization Awareness
Trafficking Awareness

Encourages Pro-Social Behavior & Action

critical thinking
social responsibility
Collaboration & Community building
upstander behavior
Expectations for healthy, non-violent relationships
Community Connectedness
Connection to School
Cultural Norms that do not support aggression towards others
CDC Violence Prevention
Child Trends' Preventing Violence Study
CSIS Youth Violence Prevention in the US

lesson scaffolding

Building Students Up

Students begin each grade level by establishing their own community agreements, creating a collaborative space for learning and growth. Lessons then progress from developing personal skills and healthy relationships to understanding how students can create positive change in their broader communities.

Kindergarten

  1. Kindness in Kindergarten Part A

  2. Kindness in Kindergarten Part B

  3. Managing Big Feelings

  4. Boundaries: Asking for & Giving Consent

  5. Boundaries: Safe & Unsafe Behaviors

  6. Bullying & Upstander Behavior

  7. Respecting Others & Belonging

  8. Making Space for Grief & Loss

1st - 5th Grade

  1. Kindness & Connection

  2. Managing Strong Emotions

  3. Boundaries: Safe & Unsafe Behaviors

  4. Bystander Behavior & Help Seeking

  5. Respecting Others & Belonging

  6. Grief & Loss

6th Grade

  1. Who Am I: Identity and Decision Making

  2. Forming Community Agreements

  3. Why and How Do We Connect?

  4. Connection Through Kindness

  5. Building a Belonging Community

  6. Significance and Building Resilience

  7. Digital Wellbeing

  8. Cyberbullying

  9. Rejection and Social Pain

  10. Mental Health & Illness

  11. Lacking Belonging, Losing Significance

  12. Grooming: Who Do We Trust Online?

  13. Radicalization and Media Literacy

  14. Relationship Behaviors

  15. Communication and Conflict Resolution

  16. A Blueprint for Belonging

7th/8th Grade

  1. Who Am I: Identity and Decision Making

  2. Forming Community Agreements

  3. Why and How Do We Connect?

  4. Connection Through Kindness

  5. Building a Belonging Community

  6. Significance and Building Resilience

  7. Digital Wellbeing

  8. Cyberbullying

  9. Rejection and Social Pain

  10. Mental Health & Illness

  11. Lacking Belonging, Losing Significance

  12. Grooming: Who Do We Trust Online?

  13. Radicalization and Media Literacy

  14. Relationship Behaviors

  15. Communication and Conflict Resolution

  16. A Blueprint for Belonging

Health I

  1. Introduction

  2. The Danger of Silence

  3. What is a Healthy Relationship?

  4. How to Argue

  5. How to Apologize

  6. Building Stronger Connections: Boundaries & Control

  7. Building Stronger Connections: Consent & Rejection

  8. How Might We Break Up?

  9. How Might We Handle Rejection?

  10. Why Consent Matters

  11. How Might We Better Protect Ourselves & Others?

  12. How Might We Make Change Happen?

  13. Prototyping Our Solutions

  14. Presenting Our Solutions

  15. Final Reflection: Values, Strengths, and Future Visions

Health II

  1. The Interconnectedness of Violence

  2. Biased Attitudes Part 1: Social Identity & Groups

  3. Biased Attitudes Part 2: Culture

  4. Digital Dynamics: Understanding Dehumanization & Social Media Responsibility

  5. From Attitudes to Actions

  6. Understanding Radicalization and Supporting Peers

  7. Case Studies: Violence Pyramid

  8. Building Connections Across Differences

  9. Understanding Other Perspectives

  10. What Makes an Active Bystander?

  11. Violence Prevention: Project Planning

  12. Violence Prevention: Project Presentations

  13. Final Reflection: Values, Strengths, and Future Visions

Adaptive for Different Learning Levels

Culturally-Responsive

Classroom as a Mini-Community

Who is this curriculum for?

YBH serves youth ages 5-18 in diverse educational settings, including schools, after-school programs, clubs, churches, and youth organizations. Through targeted skill-building, YBH helps organizations strengthen protective factors against both victimization and perpetration of violence.

How was the curriculum developed?

YBH expands on Nest's flagship Healthy Relationships curriculum, incorporating research-based prevention strategies that address all forms of violence and harm. The curriculum has undergone multiple rounds of review by our diverse board of educational advisors. Learn more about the expert voices contributing to this curriculum.

How is our impact measured?

YBH expands on Nest's flagship curriculum, which was monitored in partnership with Columbia University's Division of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry since 2014. A longitudinal study of YBH will begin in 2026 with UCLA's Wagman Lab.

curriculum license

What's Included?

1-Year Campus License Agreement

Online Teacher Portal Access

Easy to navigate, up-to-date teacher portal with all lesson materials, handouts, and support resources.

Asynchronous Training

Self-paced asynchronous training specifically crafted to support implementation

Customizable Live Training (optional)

Available for additional cost.

Discount on Nest Workshops

For students and/or school staff. Learn more about Nest Workshops.

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frequently asked questions

Is the “You Belong Here” curriculum considered a Social Emotional Learning curriculum?

'You Belong Here' (YBH) is a research-based violence prevention curriculum grounded in Significance Quest Theory (SQT) and the social-ecological model of violence prevention. While the curriculum utilizes social emotional learning components, these are implemented in service of our primary goal: violence prevention. Our curriculum uniquely combines proven SEL practices with specialized violence prevention strategies to comprehensively address root causes of harm.

Are the lessons intended to be taught in sequential order?

Yes, YBH lessons are designed with a gradual scaffold and build upon each other. Teaching them in order will ensure that students develop the necessary skills to move forward with the material. However, we recognize that schools in particular have varying scheduling needs and educational priorities, and we encourage them to adapt and utilize the materials in ways that best serve their learners.

How many lessons are included in the curriculum?

There are 8-10 lessons for Kindergarten through 5th grade. Middle and high school include 13-16 lessons to accommodate more advanced discussions on violence and relationships and provide adequate time for students to build and implement community projects. Review the lesson scaffolding for more details.

Who are the lessons designed to be taught by?

The YBH curriculum is aligned with national and state Health Education standards, therefore Health educators typically teach this material. However, every school district/organization can decide who is the most qualified (and trained) to facilitate the YBH curriculum.

How long are the lessons in this curriculum?

The lessons within this curriculum address challenging topics. They have been created for skill building, engagement, discussion, and critical thinking. Facilitators should prepare 60 minutes for lessons, if being taught in its entirety.

How do staff members get trained?

Asynchronous training is embedded in the teacher portal. School districts and organizations can request live, in-person training for an additional cost.

Can counselors and teachers co-facilitate lessons?

Yes, any trained professional can facilitate these lessons.

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